Self-reliance is something important to possess. If you have self-reliance, you will rely on yourself to cope with anything; your physical, mental, emotional, etc. In this modern era, you, the brand new, knowledgeable, glorious generation, are supposed to be self-reliant. It is not easy to be a real self-reliant person, but you should try to develop your self-reliance. There are several good reasons why you should develop self-reliance.
The first reason why you should develop this is because self-reliance supports your individuality. You are a social creature who needs others in your life, but you should stop yourself from being ‘cog in the machine’ of a larger group. You do not need to always rely on other people because you are a capable individual. Believe that you have intelligence and ability to reach what you want on your own.
Secondly, self-reliance brings strong and well self-esteem and it is like the best medicine to grow self-esteem. If you always rely on other people, your self-esteem will become smaller and may be vanished. You may feel that you are not expected and think that you need to apologize for your existence in this world. On the other hand, if you are self-reliant, you will be proud of your independence and something precious you create.
The third reason why self-reliance should be encouraged relates to the first reason; that is it brings a greater sense of freedom to the individual. If you only rely on other people, such as your friends, you will feel that you have to be like people you rely on or to do something like them. You will think that everything you do must depend on them. But if you have self-reliance, it means that you have some freedom to do what you want to do and you like, but the freedom here means the ability to live your own life on your own terms. The more self-reliance you possess, the more freedom you have.
Besides that, if you are self-reliant, you will be hard worker. On the other hand, if you are dependent people, you will be lazy because you always think that other people will help you. You will be like a beggar, only waiting for someone’s help in meeting and solving your problems in any conditions, although actually you can do them by yourself.
Those points may be the reasons to make you sure that self-reliance is really good and you should possess it. Many people may think that a self-reliant human being is egoistic, unfriendly, and only think of him/herself, but you are wrong if you think like that. You may be self-reliant who cares about your surroundings, friendly with everyone which means that you do not only think of yourself. Believe that you will please other people by being self-reliant, moreover if you also become gregarious, friendly with everybody. It will be more perfect if you become gregarious and self-reliant human being.
You always cope with your problems on your own, but once you find any difficulties in your life. Don’t worry about that. You have many friends and you can ask for help. Because of your self-reliance, your friends will help you sincerely since they know that you have tried by yourself. Otherwise, if your friends know you as dependent people, they will not whole-heartedly help you. This is because actually people like those who make effort in his/her life.
Besides that, if you are gregarious and self-reliant, your friends will trust your capability. Your friends will regard you as knowledgeable and smart since you always solve your problems on your own. As an example, because you are self-reliant, you always do your homework and so you can help your friends when they find any difficulties. After that, your friends will know your ability and they will trust it.
Other good point of being self-reliant is you will be strong toward pressure. This is because you have principle and strong way of thinking. In addition, you will be able to face any complicated situation. Life gets harder now and you will meet many critical people and to survive on this situation you need self-reliance. Don’t worry about this because you are not the only one who face such condition, but every human being. And to avoid being pressured, it is good to be gregarious so you have friends to share your feeling and never feel alone.
The next is that being self-reliant makes you able to control yourself. Self-reliance is developed by training yourself to control many things. The more self-reliant you have, the better you will control many things such as your emotion. It means that you will treat your friends well and so you will make better relationship.
You will be extraordinary if you are gregarious and self-reliant individual.
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